Surroundings… surround yourself with people who wouldn’t change whether your situation was ten times better or ten times worse. Don’t let social media or others dictate your relationship or pursuit of one. Let GOD lead you in that area. Some folks are giving advice out of loneliness, desperation, impatience and unhealed hurt, & several other reasons that have nothing to do with you as a individual or your path of LIFE. When you make major moves with your faith & life Goals, your mind will start pulling up every time you’ve failed in the past. Don’t fall for it! Keep going! Just start! Every step is progress. Step by Step.
Choose your life, how are you going to choose your life? Choose your life, like you choose your food. Diet. Detox. Healthy. Good for your system? positive, motivated, kind friends, happy healthy activities and hobbies. VS. Negative energy, road blocker friends, who deter you from reaching healthy goals and healthy mindsets. DETOX them, it, or whatever else falls in that processed, negative , unhealthy food category.
Have people in your life to make up for your weakness. The right friends draw doors on your walls and help you open them.