I wish to ask a question today that has been troubling me for last few days. Do you believe that physical health is more important than mental health? Why is it that a person who suffers a physical injury, say from an accident or a calamity or an attack, is given more attention than […]
Is selflove & selfcare selfish to others? I’ve spent long years telling myself I cannot afford to slowdown, To have even 10 minutes of me time, I have to hustle and work more. Doing that for too long, you will find yourself incredibly exhausted.
It’s time for things to change. Self-care spending a few minutes each day doing nothing. No thinking, no social media, nothing. Get in touch with your body, your inner self.
It starts from there. Reasons you shouldn’t feel selfish for taking care of yourself.
Authenticity. The moment you decide to give yourself a few minutes of the day, you’re also allowing yourself to be more authentic. If you think you already do, think again.
Try it for a month, don’t wait for the weekends; put in a little extra effort and commit to doing something every day for yourself. It won’t take long before you see some parts of yourself you never thought existed. It allows you to determine which parts are authentically yours and which aren’t—we all have aspects in us that are copied from someone else.
You can only help others if you’re helping yourself first, physically, mentally and spiritually. Desire, passion are not enough. You need a healthy body, open mind to function, which aren’t present if you’re filled with self-doubt. It’s not going to be easy, but worth it. The road to self-care is a tricky one. But it’s necessary. Pretending to be strong 24/7 doesn’t last long. The strength must come from within. It helps you go from existing to living.
Existing is simply being on this tiny blue dot called Earth. Living is experiencing everything this tiny blue dot has to offer. Which are you doing? Are you going to wait for your retirement before you decide you want to enjoy life? for yourself? Although we have responsibilities paying bills, raising children, etc.
We’re also responsible for taking care of ourselves. It will help you find your purpose. You’ve probably asked that question countless times. You might have days, weeks or months where you feel down, unsatisfied, feeling like there should be something more. It’s your body signaling you to take a leap into the unknown, because your purpose is out there, waiting.
How do you know when you find it? You just do. Self-care means trusting yourself. It means being willing to go out in the wild or dig deep. It might be scary, but there’s really no other way to figure out what you’re supposed to do in this world. Practicing self-care and building trust between you and your inner self will help you find purpose in life.
Self-care can be Empowering, as you need it to be.
For years now people say that they are being selfish or narcissistic. The suggestion to take care of yourself first gets a bad rap when we begin to do so in the sense that it says “no” to someone else; or we don’t like what the art of taking care of self looks like from our point of view. We can’t pick and choose how we want people to take care of themselves because it looks insensitive to us because them being in a healthy state of mind might leave us behind, or they need time to themselves for an uncertain amount of time. The person who is taking care of self knows what that looks and feels like to them and because we love them we have to allow them to balance themselves in the best way that they know how.
We have so many people doing the opposite of taking care of themselves to the point of self deprecation and deprivation that it is leaving them in a void. Some of us become co-dependents to the state of martyrdom because it makes us look saintly but underneath we are miserable.
When we deplete ourselves because we have chosen to put others before ourselves over and over again in a way that is unhealthy it places emotional stress and tension on us that can present itself through mental and physical health issues. We have to balance out our energies in a way that replenishes us so that we are able to give to those we love and care for in ways that allow us to give of ourselves in the best light possible.
by Apostle Gabriel Cross I rise this day in deep travail for God’s people. Father, I honor and Glorify you, the KING, of all kings, and LORD, of all lords. Father, God-Almighty, in Yeshua’s name, I bring my flesh, self, and ideology, down, into subjection, to You. I intercede, for the needs of your people. […]
Life Coach, Kamryn Adams, explores the changing seasons in our faith.
We think of a curse as something very ominous. But they happen all the time. All a curse is, is someone with an intention for us that has more energy than our own course of action. A curse is their intention overriding what we intend for ourselves. If we are not certain of a […]
Hi my name Is ZENA and today is September 15th 2017 MY BIRTH-DAY. BORN-DAY.
I would First & Foremost like to give thanks to The Heavenly Father GOD above for Blessing me with another Born day. He has giving me life and I am forever & Beyond Grateful. I am thankful for growing, learning, enjoying, living, crying, hurt, broken, loving, liking, forgetting and just being alive and healthy, Every breath in my living body i take, i will do my best to continue to be grateful. It is a Gift i have and i am very appreciative beyond words can explain. I thank GOD for protecting me from what i thought i wanted and Blessing me with what i didn’t know i needed everyday and always. I am Bless to release all pain, struggles, tribulations & continue to restore peace within my soul. FATHER GOD I APPRECIATE YOU, I LOVE YOU, YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP IVE BEEN BLESSED WITH IN MY LIFE AND I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR THE JOURNEY & RELATIONSHIPS YOU HAVE BLESSED IN MY PATH. THANKYOU FOR ALWAYS FORGIVING ME, LOVING ME & BLESSING ME & MOST OF ALL PROTECTING ME. I GREATLY LOOK FORWARD TO THE FUTURE YOU HAVE PLANNED FOR ME & MY FAMILY. KINGDOM COME, THAT WILL BE DONE ON EARTH AS IT IS IN HEAVEN. AMEN
THANK YOU FATHER GOD!
SINCERELY YOUR DAUGHTER,
I AM VIRGO.
“Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on […]