Conversation with Kids?!

Making conversations with kids can be awkward but absolutely lovely, and A Hilariously fun thing to do.  Make conversations with Kids. Talking to kids nowadays can be very hard. Especially if you do not have children of your own.   A great start, Be available to make conversation with them. Kids don’t usually make plans to have conversations with us Adults, We have to be available to them in order to stimulate conversation with the child. If we’re with them, we’re bound to hear what they have to say.   Children are very immediate, when it comes to their feelings & emotions, When a child wants to talk, make yourself available. Create space to have conversations with them, prepare yourself. Resist the urge to correct the child in the conversation, if a child is telling you something inaccurate, ask the child what does he or she thinks happened, so that way, they can express their thoughts. Draw out their curiosity, rather then forcing on them, an accurate explanation. You can fact check afterwards, also be interested and into what their into, their likes and dislikes. Watch something together with the child, and ask open ended questions, relating to kids nowadays is a challenge, these few techniques can apply to help engage a conversation with 4-15 year olds. Especially for Adults who have no clue or possibly no children and not one solid idea on how to have a Kid conversation. Have fun, Kids are awesome!

Little child boy wall corner punishment standing
Little child boy wall corner punishment standing

Get Active Now!

Get active. Participate in activities you enjoy more than just fun and games. Exercise and be physically active. Activities help support healthy aging. As we get older, You should add a volunteer or social activity to your routine. Engage in an art class, volunteer in your community or place of worship. It helps maintain your well being, Hobbies and social pursuits lower your risk of developing health problems including dementia. Create a avenue to have a longer lifespan by playing games, social activities that are meaningful, productive such as a unpaid job, or gardening or working with children. More happy, less depressed, and healthy. It will improve your cognitive and physical health overall as a long term benefit.

Get out and about. Learn something new. Become more active in your community. Be physically active, possibly yard work, exercise or take a class learning something you are interested in. Find the right balance. Everyone has different limits to the amount of time you can spend on social or other activities.

Remember participating in activities you enjoy should be fun, NOT STRESSFUL!!!

GET ACTIVE NOW!!!

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DETACH YOURSELF

Detach yourself, love life relationships, men, women, friendships

Detach. Learn to walk away from people, situations that threaten your mind, self-respect, self-worth. Energy you expand on focusing on, someone else, is better spent working on your own. You are what you do, not what you say you’ll do. You cannot control negative behavior from people. You can control how long you participate in it. Don’t get mad, Detach Yourself. Refuse to entertain negative. Life is too big, time is too short to get caught up in empty drama.

Stay away from negative people, they have a problem for every solution. Be aware, become aware of what’s really worth your energy. Staying away from people who can’t take responsibility for their actions and who make you feel bad for being angry at them when they are projecting the empty drama.

Remember, and always keep in mind ” WE CANNOT PRAY IN LOVE AND LIVE IN HATE AND STILL THINK WE ARE WORSHIPPING GOD”

DETACH YOURSELF!!!

DETACHYOU

 

Surroundings?!

Inner Peace

Surroundings… surround yourself with people who wouldn’t change whether your situation was ten times better or ten times worse. Don’t let social media or others dictate your relationship or pursuit of one. Let GOD lead you in that area. Some folks are giving advice out of loneliness, desperation, impatience and unhealed hurt, & several other reasons that have nothing to do with you as a individual or your path of LIFE. When you make major moves with your faith & life Goals,  your mind will start pulling up every time you’ve failed in the past. Don’t fall for it! Keep going! Just start! Every step is progress. Step by Step.

Choose your life, how are you going to choose your life? Choose your life, like you choose your food. Diet. Detox. Healthy. Good for your system? positive, motivated, kind friends, happy healthy activities and hobbies. VS. Negative energy, road blocker friends, who deter you from reaching healthy goals and healthy mindsets. DETOX them, it, or whatever else falls in that processed, negative , unhealthy food category.

Have people in your life to make up for your weakness. The right friends draw doors on your walls and help you open them.

INNER PEACE IS THE NEW SUCCESS. JUST START!!!