It’s that time of year again when we get to celebrate the new season by doing some serious spring cleaning. Although I love doing cleaning as often as possible and I even have daily checklists that I go through, this is the time of year when I do serious deep cleaning. Even though I have […]
Making conversations with kids can be awkward but absolutely lovely, and A Hilariously fun thing to do. Make conversations with Kids. Talking to kids nowadays can be very hard. Especially if you do not have children of your own. A great start, Be available to make conversation with them. Kids don’t usually make plans to have conversations with us Adults, We have to be available to them in order to stimulate conversation with the child. If we’re with them, we’re bound to hear what they have to say. Children are very immediate, when it comes to their feelings & emotions, When a child wants to talk, make yourself available. Create space to have conversations with them, prepare yourself. Resist the urge to correct the child in the conversation, if a child is telling you something inaccurate, ask the child what does he or she thinks happened, so that way, they can express their thoughts. Draw out their curiosity, rather then forcing on them, an accurate explanation. You can fact check afterwards, also be interested and into what their into, their likes and dislikes. Watch something together with the child, and ask open ended questions, relating to kids nowadays is a challenge, these few techniques can apply to help engage a conversation with 4-15 year olds. Especially for Adults who have no clue or possibly no children and not one solid idea on how to have a Kid conversation. Have fun, Kids are awesome!
Bounce Back. In life, you always have a choice. Be Weak! or Be Strong!
Who you truly are as a person is best revealed by who you are during times of conflict and crisis. If you can be strong during challenging times you truly are a disciplined and spirited person. That is a True identity.
Push Forward. Whenever the downfall or past calls or you’re tempted to dwell on it, the best word that should come to mind is “Forward”. Move forward with a great action & positivity. Acceptance is okay, despite the struggles, conflicts or crisis. Acceptance can mean, your ready, and don’t want to struggle anymore. You’ve excepted it and plan to move forward with action mentally & physically.
Although we dread the tears, pain & total loss of any control over situations, we find out later in our lives it was actually a great & necessary thing and gives us the opportunity to grow and learn our strengths. Bounce yourself Back to being a better, greater you. You are worth it, its your life, don’t fear.
“ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE NOT IMPORTANT TO SOME PEOPLE AND MOVE ON. ” You are to Full of life to be Half loved.” MOVE ON.
Surroundings… surround yourself with people who wouldn’t change whether your situation was ten times better or ten times worse. Don’t let social media or others dictate your relationship or pursuit of one. Let GOD lead you in that area. Some folks are giving advice out of loneliness, desperation, impatience and unhealed hurt, & several other reasons that have nothing to do with you as a individual or your path of LIFE. When you make major moves with your faith & life Goals, your mind will start pulling up every time you’ve failed in the past. Don’t fall for it! Keep going! Just start! Every step is progress. Step by Step.
Choose your life, how are you going to choose your life? Choose your life, like you choose your food. Diet. Detox. Healthy. Good for your system? positive, motivated, kind friends, happy healthy activities and hobbies. VS. Negative energy, road blocker friends, who deter you from reaching healthy goals and healthy mindsets. DETOX them, it, or whatever else falls in that processed, negative , unhealthy food category.
Have people in your life to make up for your weakness. The right friends draw doors on your walls and help you open them.